Often, people live and do not think about why is everything not as good as they would want it to be in their lives. Moving up the career ladder is of great difficulty or is completely impossible, family life is not at all the same as it seemed earlier. Often, even friendships are difficult, and in the company of friends you lose yourself, wondering how to lead yourself in this or that situation.
But some people come up with the time to think, by the way, absolutely correct and explicable, that you need to develop certain qualities in yourself in order to establish contact with people around you. And this is absolutely the right trait of character that is of great help to everyone.
So, the first step. How to turn into a proper leader? Although there is a perception that a leader must be born this way, this is nonsense. The complex concept of "leader" includes many qualities that must be developed since childhood.
Yes, parents should help their child to become a strong and charismatic person, after which, the people will follow them.
The words are loud, but their meaning is simple. If a child expresses a desire to do something on his own, even if he is small and defenseless, then it is better to think a few times than to forbid, arguing that the child is too small and inexperienced. This fear of doing things will remain with him forever, the child, having already passed into adulthood, will in many respects assume that he is still too small and too young.
Ok, so you decided to become a leader. But the leader of what? Some kind of social movement or a religious? This is, of course, a joke, we sincerely hope that you won’t be a cult leader, yet you should remember, a leader should have a goal. You cannot become a leader for the sake of leadership, you must understand that this is only a tool that helps to achieve the main goal.
First of all, you need to get to know your personal qualities. To do this, ask your family and friends to help you with this. Let them write on a piece of paper what qualities you lack to become a leader, and in the opposite column they will write those qualities that will help you to achieve this goal.
The next step is to get an idol. In fact, this is also a kind of leader, because people follow this person, they listen to him, and his opinion is appreciated. Communicate as much as possible with such people, learn their "tricks" and principles of life. You will be surprised how often such people like to “teach” those who ask for it, easily revealing all their secret cards.
The next step is understanding. You will have to understand that in order to become a leader in the company of friends or in the work team, you must believe in yourself and in your victory. Otherwise it is impossible, if you do not believe in yourself, then no one will believe in you either.
The last rule is to get to know the experience of others. Now that you have a lot of your own experience, you can compare it with someone else’s, learning from it. Studying the materials and the craft of leadership, you will understand where else you can apply your acquired knowledge.